When You're the Sender1. Make sure that email is the right communication tool for the job.
- Although email can sometimes feel like the ultimate replacement for all other forms of communication, it's actually more limited than you might initially think.
- First of all, email is not synchronous like telephone calls or in-person conversations; in other words, sending a message does not guarantee an immediate response. Also, it can sometimes take more time to write an email than it would to speak to someone directly. Finally, email doesn't make it easy to convey quick sketches or notes that are nonlinear. If you need an immediate response, think you'll have a lot of follow-up questions, or need to convey a complex topic using visual ads, email is probably not the best tool for the job.
2. Get to the point right away.
- Whenever possible, ask your question --- or provide your response --- within the first few sentences of your message; you can always give details and explanations later. Tackling the major points up front decreases the chances that you'll lose your reader's attention, confuse them, or irritate them by by forcing them to spend extra time looking for your point.
Good: Hey. can you send m your TPS report today? I noticed you haven't filed it yet.
BAD: Hey, I noticed your haven't filed your TPS report. It's really important that we get all these reports in every day. Have you done yours yet? I'd like to take a look.
3. When asking a question, be sure to ask the question.
- If you need information or have a request, phrase it as a question to ensure that your receipt knows you need a response. Simply making a statement and assuming people will respond is a good way to get ignored.
Good: Do you have time to analyze the failure of the TPS report system and put together a report on it this week? We may have an opportunity to go with a different vendor.
Bad: We need to look into the failures of the TPS report system. A report would be good to have.
4. Specify who should respond.
- If you send an email to a list or group of people, you may not receive a response unless you specify who in the group is responsible for following up. Group emails make it easier for all recipients to assume someone else on the list will handle the request.
Good: Hi, all. Good news: We've decided to upgrade the TPS report system based on our feedback. Peter, can you check in with IT to a make sure the rollout doesn't requires to stop production of the reports.
BAD: Hi, all. We've decided to upgrade the TPS report system based on your feedback. Can we check in with IT before this happens?
5. Be clear about when you need a response.
- If you want the recipient to get back to you by the end of the day, save yourself the frustration of playing the waiting game by setting a deadline for a response. Otherwise, your coworkers might put your message on their to-do list and get back to your whenever it's convenient for them. Additionally, you may want to bring extra attention to time-sensitive messages by flagging them as high-importance items or noting the deadline in the email's subject line.
Good: Can you replace the cover sheet on your TPS report with the new cover sheet we're using now? Also, please re-file by the end of the day.
BAD: Yeah, I'm going need you to go ahead and replace the cover sheet on your TPS report with a new none, OK?
6. Provide context to frame your message.
- If you're emailing someone out of the blue, don't just assume he or she will know what you're talking about --- even if your were just talking about it in person a few minutes ago. People don't always check their email right away, so they may not recall what your were discussing. Also, some people may want a record of the email thread to look back on days or weeks later.
Good: I agree with what you were saying in the hall about how TPS reports are a waste of time. I'm not going to do mine anymore.
BAD: You're right. I'm not doing mine anymore.
When You're the Recipient
1. Don't make any assumptions about sender's emotional state.
- Unless the sender actually spells out the fact that he or she is angry with you, don't assume that the person intended to send a rude response -- you just don't know for sure. Most people aren't great writers, so it's possible that the sender didn't realize how the message would sound when read by another person. She may even have trying to make a joke by being sarcastic, a feast few people can actually pull of in writing.
- If you receive an email that really make your heart skip a beat when you read it, try walking away from the message and re-reading it later before you respond. See if there's any other possible way to interpret the note; you may even want to ask someone else to take a look at the message and offer her impressions.
2. Don't escalate a conflict by sending an emotionally charged response.
- If you decide that the sender intended to send you a rude email, don't make the problem worse by sending an equally charged response. Doing so may start a vicious cycle of nasty emails -- after all. it's easy to hide behind your computer and fire of angry messages that say things you probably wouldn't say in person. Pick up the phone or set up an in-person meeting, and you'll likely have easier time getting to the bottom of the issue and resolving the conflict.
Good: Can we schedule a quick, face-to-face meeting or phone call to discuss this?
BAD: Oh yeah? Well, I guess I'll just have to burn the building down then.
3. Ask for clarification.
- If you receive an email that doesn't quite make sense --- with confusing grammar or no punctuation, for example --- ask the sender to clarify. It's whole lot faster to ask for clarification than it is to re-read a massage four times, ask everyone for their opinions on what it means, and send back a response that doesn't address the sender's point. While you can ask for more information, by replying to the email, getting clarification over the phone or in person might be an even quicker way to get answers to your questions.
4. REMEMBER: You don't have to respond to every message right away.
- Unless you are being paid solely to send and receive emails, it's a pretty good bet that you have other, more pressing tasks to devote your attention to. s a final piece of advice, don't forget to give yourself permission to periodically turn way from your inbox so you can take some time to finish other activities.
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